qqqvvv May 7, 2025, 10:33 p.m.

Anyone know how mobile games target kids with gambling addiction tactics??

Just found out my 14-year-old son has been spending money on this "free" mobile game called Clash Royale and the charges on my credit card are insane. We're talking about $847 in the last two months alone and I had no idea this was even happening because the charges came through as small amounts like $4.99 and $9.99 at random times.

When I confronted him about it, he broke down crying and said he "needed" to buy these chest things to get better cards or he couldn't compete with his friends online. He kept saying the game kept showing him these special offers that were "limited time only" and he felt like he had to buy them or miss out forever.

The more I've researched this, the more disgusted I am. These games are literally using the same psychological tricks as slot machines to hook kids. They have these loot boxes where you don't know what you're getting, they send push notifications at specific times when kids are most vulnerable, and they make the free progression so painfully slow that kids feel pressured to spend money just to keep up.

What's really messing with my head is that my son is normally responsible with money and has never shown addictive behaviors before. But something about these games just flipped a switch in his brain. He was lying about homework, staying up until 3am playing, and becoming aggressive when I tried to limit his screen time.

Has anyone else dealt with this nightmare? I'm trying to figure out if there's any way to get refunds for these charges since they're clearly targeting minors with predatory tactics. Also wondering if I should be worried about long-term psychological damage from this experience.

LOLOLO256148541 May 6, 2025, 5:41 p.m.

apple support actually helped me get refunds when i explained the situation involved a minor and predatory game design. Worth calling them directly instead of just using the automated system

VipAll May 8, 2025, 1:56 a.m.

OMG same nightmare here except with fortnite skins. found out my 12yr old spent $400 of birthday money plus hit my card for another $200. the guilt trips these games use are insane - "all your friends have this, you'll be left out"

Remdo May 8, 2025, 6 p.m.

call your bank right now and dispute every single charge. Tell them a minor made unauthorized purchases. most banks side with parents on this stuff but you need to act fast before the window closes

Veees May 9, 2025, 9:25 p.m.

This is why i dont give my kids any access to payment methods period. They can earn google play cards through chores if they want game stuff but no direct card access ever

Oijm7i May 11, 2025, 8:36 p.m.

Went through this hell 6 months ago. Kid was having panic attacks about missing "daily deals" in some anime game. took away the phone completely for 3 weeks and he acted like i murdered his dog

Last night May 14, 2025, 4:43 p.m.

These companies are straight up predators. They hire behavioral scientists to figure out exactly how to manipulate children's brains for maximum profit. Its legalized child abuse disguised as entertainment

atomic May 15, 2025, 2:07 a.m.

the fact that theyre specifically targeting kids during school hours with push notifications should be illegal. My daughter was getting "special offer" alerts during math class trying to get her to spend lunch money

Wallyri May 18, 2025, 7:51 p.m.

Took screenshots of everything when this happened to us - all the predatory popup messages, the countdown timers, the fake "other players bought this" notifications. Evidence for when these lawsuits finally gain traction

hamze11 May 20, 2025, 11:07 p.m.

Your son is experiencing what researchers call dark pattern design where user interfaces are deliberately crafted to trick users into spending money through psychological manipulation rather than providing genuine value or entertainment

xxxsnakexxx May 24, 2025, 9:39 a.m.

Filed complaints everywhere - FTC, state consumer protection, even wrote my congressman. Probably wont help immediately but maybe enough noise will force regulation someday

greenjo99 May 29, 2025, 10:05 p.m.

switched to retro handheld gaming devices for my kids. no internet, no microtransactions, just actual complete games. pokemon red is more entertaining than any of this predatory garbage

bekw96 May 31, 2025, 12:40 a.m.

Honestly these mobile game executives should be in prison for what theyre doing to children. Running a drug dealing operation would be less harmful to society

das ist June 2, 2025, 8:23 p.m.

This is exactly why other countries are starting to ban loot boxes and classify them as gambling. Meanwhile usa just lets corporations destroy kids mental health for profit

Prince Decereved June 10, 2025, 9:19 p.m.

My nephew is in therapy now because of mobile game addiction. Went from honor roll student to failing everything because he couldnt stop chasing these digital rewards that cost real money

icrack June 15, 2025, 12:14 a.m.

Got so fed up with this crap that i started a local parent group focused on tech addiction in kids. Meeting monthly now with 30+ families dealing with similar issues. We need to fight back collectively against these parasites